about your future

What are YOU going to do about your future? Yes, I asked you… what are YOU going to do with your future? When the current comes, will you go with the flow or swim against it?
Sometimes bad things happen to all of us. It is inevitable that in an economically, politically and socially unstable world, there will be pain, uncertainty, heartache and horrible events. You should expect bad things to happen but that does not mean that your life is going to be one big tragedy. That goes to say, that each of us must aspire to reach beyond what we are.
The beautiful thing about being in the present moment is one can make choices which will elevate her to her best life yet. Your past, lady, is your past and there is nothing you can do to change it, reverse the actions or anything. Concentrate on what you want in future and work toward those goals. Last night I was listening to a pastor and he talked about the Law of Sowing and Reaping. If you want a vineyard, you will plant grapes right? Or would you plant melons? The same theory applies in each department of our lives; in financial, relational, health… you name it! My new goal is to be healthy and to have a beautiful, powerful body and so I have embarked on a ‘get healthy’ trip. The first thing I needed to do was sort out the bad habits and get rid of each, one day at a time. I also psyched myself up mentally for what was about to unfold so that, given a few moments of weakness, I could spring back on my feet again. Then I had to find a custom made exercise and nutrition plan, and stick to them. It is not an easy thing to do, but each week I get small, measurable results which add onto building the final outcome. By June next year, I should have the results I desire, as long as I stick to my original plan and am persistent.
Anything you want to build will take time, patience and determination. Remember that ANY choice you make will add onto your final outcome in life. If you CHOOSE to spend most of your weekends partying with people who are not even determined, then your dream of meeting business men and women, of finding a hobby or of even starting a part-time shoe making business (lets just suppose), will never avail to much. These are the words of someone who has experienced it so please take my candid advice, I am only trying to help. We all desire to be on the path of achieving our innate desires, but when we refuse to accept who we are and to move in our own path, we become frustrated, which eventually breeds a cycle of destructive habits because we are trying to fill the void. If you find yourself in this situation, take some time away from everyone and everything you know, and assess your life. Write down what you want and make small, measurable goals, which can be attainable weekly. Take a stand for who you are because if you do not, you will wake up one day, 40 years old, feeling dead as a dog. Do not let that be you and if it is you, it is never too late to TRY AGAIN. Be blessed.

My name is Neo Sophie Molefe, I am the founder and creator of Ezahlady- a wonderful service that deals with self-improvement in financial, relational, spiritual and physical areas of a woman’s life. Yes, my target group is geared towards the ladies simply because I am a woman an I understand our innate needs that we share. However, the interesting thing is men love visiting my blog as my advice is candid, unique, timeless and often humorous. Please take the time to visit my blog on http://www.ezahlady.wordpress.com and check out this exciting blog. I am currently working as a Public Relations intern in Gaborone, Botswna. Enjoy the articles!